Determine who Gets the Children in Case of Divorce with a Contract before Marriage

All too often, divorces turn into ugly wars of the roses. The most popular topic of dispute is the children. Whether and how you can contractually determine before marriage who will get the children in case of divorce, you can find out here on Finance & Law | Austria.

Whether and how you can contractually determine in a prenuptial agreement who will get the children in case of divorce.

Even if it may seem inappropriate before the wedding, in a phase of highest infatuation, to talk about the consequences of separation, it is not. On the contrary, a prenuptial agreement represents a sensible means of joint life planning that provides security to both parties.

Therefore, more and more couples are concluding a prenuptial agreement before marriage.

The prenuptial agreement is a contract concluded between spouses before or during marriage to regulate legal consequences in connection with the marriage. In the prenuptial agreement, especially the statutory regulations of divorce consequences, but also the legal consequences of matrimonial property law and inheritance law can be contractually modified.

Dr Mariella Stubhann MPM MBA Dr Mariella Stubhann MPM MBA
Finanz & Recht
„Was liegt näher, als auch die Frage der Kinder zu regeln?

Bei welchem Elternteil sollen die Kinder im Fall der Scheidung wohnen? Wer hat das Obsorgerecht? Wie hoch hat der Unterhalt zu sein?“

Common Topics in a Prenuptial Agreement

When designing the prenuptial agreement, the spouses are very free. Typical prenuptial agreements include the following topics:

Regulations for the case of divorce

Regulations for the case of divorce are the main motivation and thus the core topic of most prenuptial agreements. The following topics are at the center:

Regulations concerning the children

Experience shows that in divorces, children are often at the center of disputes between ex-partners. Therefore, nothing is more obvious than making sensible arrangements regarding the children in the prenuptial agreement.

In particular, the following points should be considered:

Dr Mariella Stubhann MPM MBA Dr Mariella Stubhann MPM MBA
Finanz & Recht
ACHTUNG: Vereinbarungen über diese Punkte können in den Ehevertrag aufgenommen werden. Die Rechtsprechung betrachtet diese Regelungen jedoch als unverbindlich.“

These are therefore mere declarations of intent that are not legally enforceable in case of divorce. At best, these agreements serve as an argument in court for the ex-partner who wants to rely on the agreement. Nothing more.

Protection of Children and Parents

This serves to protect the children and the parents.

In regulations concerning custody and child support, the child’s well-being always comes first. The court does not necessarily adhere to the parents’ ideas, but examines in each case what is ideal for the children.

Furthermore, no parent should be susceptible to blackmail for financial reasons to give up rights to the children in case of divorce. This makes it impossible for particularly wealthy spouses to pressure the other spouse and present them with the choice: “Money or children“.

Last modified: 19.05.2025
Author Dr. Mariella Stubhann MPM MBA
Profession: Media owner, Editor-in-Chief, Lawyer
Dr. Mariella Stubhann MPM MBA is the publisher and editor-in-chief of Finanz & Recht | Österreich. Her journalistic focus is on law, finance, taxes, and social issues.

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